Psychotherapy Institute of Individual Family and Community Development, Inc.

Does your foster or adoptive child display any of the following:

Exhibits controlling and manipulative behavior aimed at meeting their own needs without regard for others.
Lies almost constantly, even about inconsequential matters.
Refuses to take responsibility for their behavior
Exhibits a lack of empathy, compassion, and remorse
Easily flies into a rage, temper tantrums, and exhibits inappropriate emotional reactions (e.g., laughing when others are hurt)
Hoard food, even though they are being adequately fed
Sexual acting out

If you are responding “yes” to the above, you are not alone. These are problematic behaviors that many foster and adoptive parents report their child exhibits. Many foster parents find their child’s behavior inexplicable, alienating, and frightening. In addition, many children target their most problematic behaviors towards the mother – often creating friction in the marriage.

If you are feeling helpless and frustrated, we can help. We can help you gain a better understanding of the confusing and contradictory behaviors that foster and adoptive children often display. We use a combination of attachment theory, behavioral approaches, and positive parenting to help reduce problematic behaviors, improve communication, and restore harmony to your marriage and family.

It’s very important that you seek help early, as studies show that early and consistent intervention and supportive environments can help offset the negative effects of early childhood trauma and neglect. Conversely, the longer you wait to intervene, the more negative the relationship becomes, and the harder it is to change.

Call us now at 925-777-9540 or e-mail at psychinstitute@comcast.net for more information and an appointment.

We offer face-to-face services, as well as consultation for those who do not live in the area.

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